[quote=Trippin2.0;5326803]You've been waiting how long to get MH help and you blow it off on account of bad weather?


Did I read that right?


And if I did, please tell me it was flooding, or there was a hurricane or any other disaster that makes it LITERALLY impossible to leave the house.


Because if not...

Makes me question where your priorities really lie and also gives me some more insight.


Looks like you are complacent in your misery, the financial and emotional strain of a separation does not appeal to your comfort loving nature. Same goes for a job. You will always choose what is comfortable, until your desperation overrides your need for comfort. And it may never.


Not to toot my own horn or anything, but do you have any idea how many times I've gotten soaked getting to and from therapy in the past 2 years?


Why? Because it is a priority, I made a commitment to myself and therapy is part of that commitment.

I figured I could be warm and dry after therapy, and I'm sure many other folks here on PC have made similar commitments.


It's so hard to get into the MH system willingly, and to blow it off, idk.

Just seems irresponsible.

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I hear what you're saying, and I shouldn't have not gone. I will soon. Also, I am trying to do what I can to get a job. I'm going to a job interview this week. It's a group one unfortunately.

Hopefully I'll get hired for it. I need the money. I have no idea if it'll be seasonal or not. Hopefully it'll be permanent. It's for a place that I like. I have put things off for too long. I'm changing that now. And no, I'm not OK with being miserable. I'm content usually, and yes, I do like my comfort.

My situation is not ideal, but it's not the worst either, so I need to deal with it for now as best as I can. I have very limited options for now.