Lmo,

just wanted to add my care for you in all this... i don't know what to say that would help but i think it was really thoughtful of you to think of your mom and give her some respite when you are able to make the visit... real life issues are present and you are taking a lot into account... of course don't be too hard on yourself for not doing enough, it seems you always are extending yourself out there for others and i know if there was someone like you in my real life i would feel very grateful... wishing you, your new baby and all that is yours the best... take care..