Being a man I don't feel very good about your husbands attitude of his sexual need. He only thought of himself if he would have thought more about u he could have worked this out by well personaly I would have thought of it as a challange almost a game I mean there is alot more that can be done during making love with your wife than making u hurt. He has a bad attitude making himself look like a victim not making your wife feel sexy is cruel I bet u are his loss