I was scared to death to tell my parents. I was afraid they would think I was making it up. They ended up being over protective. They treat me like I can't take care of myself and when I have a set back they treat me like a loser. My sister and my dad don't think my mom should help me anymore when I'm in crisis because I should be able to do it on my own. Family sucks when it comes to mental health. I've learned to build support systems without them. I know they love me but they don't understand the bipolar. You have to tell them eventually just be prepared to deal with the ramifications. They love you and want what they believe is the best for you. It's a challenge but you will have to prove that you are capable of taking care of yourself. After being diagnosed I went on to get s masters degree which was totally against what my dad wanted. I eventually moved across the country to live and grow and become the person I was meant to be. Good luck!