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Originally Posted by Bill3
I wonder if you are seeing a therapist to help you overcome what that guy did to you
It strikes me as very accomodating of the new guy to basically wait for as long as you need..To me, what he is asking is that you maintain the possibility of dating him. If you friendzone him then he would be waiting for nothing.
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I'm not currently seeing a therapist at all. I know I should... my current situation is a bit complicated making it difficult to see one but I will try to get in for an intake soon.
That's the thing though. It's nice of him to wait but even I have told him that since I don't know when or even if I'll been ready to date again (not trying to sound dramatic), I don't want him to wait too long. Why wait for somebody like me when there's plenty of women out there that are ready for a relationship. He's a great guy and deserves to have a woman who wants to be with him.
I guess what bothered me what just how he worded it. I don't like the term "friendzoned". It makes me feel rushed.