Could you see it as that she is tailoring the way she works because she wants you to be comfortable and for you to work well together?

I guess I don't understand how her taking a more personalized approach in response to your feedback means she is only doing something as a technique. I think it might be also interpretable as a sign that she is willing to be flexible according to what you need.

But I see it's very painful for you - I am sorry you are having a difficult time.