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Originally Posted by ValentinaVVV
I was waaaaay below my brothers. She deeply and openly preferred them, over me.
And that was just not OK with me.
She said didn't love me a much because i didn't "need" her. So, I was a tough, resilient independent person so you didn't love me? OK.
Right. Kids don't need their parents.
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Was she of that old school thinking that the boys were more important than girls?
I know if we were boys, my mother wouldn't have said any of the things she said to us girls. She wouldn't have pulled any of the crap she did. She would have raised us to be providers, whereas i was actually told, not by just her, but by lots of family and their friends, too "Don't be a provider, marry one".
Your mother had some deep rooted issue with you because you were a girl, I guess.