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Old Oct 18, 2016, 11:37 AM
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Originally Posted by SarahSweden View Post
I think I have several issues with my T as I was assigned to her, there was no choice to make as she´s the only one at the clinic I´m at and switching clinics would imply risking not getting another chance for therapy or being stuck waiting many months or even more than a year to see another T.

My impression is she doesn´t have the time or interest in her clients in general as she works with many more clients than a private T does and the clients are assigned to her. That is, she works with clients she doesn´t choose herself and as she has to get paid she can´t just say "no" because she doesn´t like a client.
My question about whether you had thought about why you seem so determined to be disappointed in her wasn't a question to be answered on the surface, as you did by naming some characteristics of her or impressions she gives you - it was a question about you and how you navigate the world. Do you look for faults in others? Are you easily disappointed in them? Is there a pattern here that you might want to change?
Thanks for this!
LucyG, SarahSweden