This has become a pattern for you with this T. You constantly find one fault, one error, obsess on it, and basically "condemn" your T.

I don't know the situation since I'm not there, but my guess is that this problem, as well as, the other issues you've had with your T are actually your own personal problems and NOT actual problems with the T.

What you say in this thread doesn't make sense logically. You asked her for handshake? And she agreed! And you didn't consider that a "technique" when she agreed? But now you do because she forgot one time?!?! And yet she did remember in the end and gave you a handshake...

My T and I hug after every session (my request). She forgot one time. I just stood there an was like "Hey! You forgot the hug!" She apologized and came back and gave me a hug. No big deal.