I do that with my T. We talked about it yesterday. Try and get him to see the worst side of me-- then check to see if he's gonna stick around. Like a test.

I disagree with the notion that there are no parts that are "bad." I think a lot of us have "bad" parts that are largely unconscious. It would be as silly to say that there are not any bad parts, as it would be to say that there are nothing but good parts. Bad doesn't necessarily mean you are going to turn into a raging manic and start killing people. Bad is subjective, but the feelings are real-- they exist to you. It's okay to think them. It's okay to test your T-- a lot of us have had such unstable upbringings, how else are we to figure out that our Ts are gonna stay?