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Originally Posted by RxQueen875
This is out of pure curiosity. How many of you have gotten to know people online only and talk regularly? I have a few other women on my fb and we regularly like or comment on each others posts. I talk to these people more than my friends IRL. I think it shows how much people are switching to cyber world for communicating these days. My best friend who is male, I met here! We talk on fb msgr every day but live 9 hours apart. Never once seen each other in person! I've had some pretty extensive convos with others here too. Even though I don't know these people IRL, I value the friendship just the same. So what's your take on this new age way of making friends?
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this may sound weird but I have always preferred the face to face, outside the computer relationships/ friendships. maybe that stems from I grew up in a location that did not have computer access. I also saw this movie one time called the net that fictionalized possible problems with a woman who made the internet her life, I realized watching that, that in real life it can be a danger to make the internet relationships my life. I would rather people know I exist as a human being rather than just a username and face (both of which can be fabricated with all kinds of software these days so you never know who or what you are actually talking to online). Not to metion the internet is part of my job and how I pass my break times and when feeling a bit under the weather. So normally I limit how long I am on the internet and make non computer time a priority.