I have tried so many times, so many to tell him I am feeling neglected. He either gets aggressive or clams up. He knows exactly how I feel right now, I burst into tears the other night, said I was having a bad moment and went to our bedroom. It was my daughter who came to comfort me. He was watching the rugby, it had just started, so obviously it took preference over my feelings.
OK some of you may think well he may not have known I needed him, but I know him and he knows me like the back of his hand, he knows I need lots of cuddles right now, he just will not give anything of himself to me in these situations, if he hurts cos I flirt then he should show his emotions more. My daughter thinks he doesn't give a damn about her, what does that tell you? It's not just me he's not affectionate with. My son never goes to him with issues, it's always me.

I try to tell hubby this but he refuses to listen.

That's my situation.

Jin