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Originally Posted by cyberwoman
I think I need to stay away from men.. Or at least demand a date from that guy if he ever wants to be intimate again but I probably shouldn't go there. That might at least be the best way of knowing what he really thinks of me. Either that or yes I should get a dog. That's the much healthier option. It depends if I'm allowed one here or not..
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You don't have to demand the date, instead, when he asks for sex or anything that you find crosses your boundaries, you simply say 'I don't do that' and blow him off. He will either change his tune and become more respectful, asking you for the date or he will move on finding another push over.
It's ok if you feel you don't want to date anymore, but you are a sexual, sensual being who wants love and companionship. Don't deny yourself. Just learn to get what you want.