OK, how can we help the "real you"? How can we support what you are trying to do instead of "enabling" the old responses that you (and we/me, too) fall into?

That's a struggle I understand, I sent an email to both of my children last week telling them that I was going to consciously try to be the new me and not fall back into old ways that I, and they, were used to relating to.

And maybe it's time to say "goodbye" to your loyal fans here sometimes and try out some of the other forums? What's the worst that can happen?