What does your picture of therapy look like, I mean without knowledge or technique or process? Ts are trained to offer a therapeutic relationship - which by definition is different to most other relationships. How would you know, for example, that she really cared, as ipppsed to doing caring things because she wanted to build a relationship where you can open up to her? I'm lost with what it is you want, that can be provided in a professional, boundaried therapy relationship.