Like yesterday I get home and find him not at work. He's lying on the couch covered up with blankets and I get a very weak "oh hi". He says his neck hurts and not like he slept on it wrong but it just hurts. Oh and he had the poops that morning, so apparently he couldn't go to his job where he sits at a computer and deals with customers. When he sees I'm not going to get mad at him for being home (because he has gone for days and weeks not going into work for no reason) he pops off the couch, starts being all happy, makes dinner, pours himself a drink and hops on the computer like nothing is wrong.

I see this morning via our phone records that he once again texted his boss and the only reason to do that is to let him know he's not coming in. Usually it boils down to a customer upset him and he doesn't want to deal with them or someone at work upset him or he's just in the mode where he doesn't care.