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Originally Posted by Yismymindblank12
So I'm meeting up with a very gorgeous woman tomorrow whose mentoring me and introducing me deeper into the BDSM lifestyle.
I'm not sure what she's wanting specifically, it's a bit too vague to tell. I can't really read her yet for what that is, but I've kept an open mind. I've wanted to get into this before secretly from most people in my life would never associate me in that.
I'm usually dominant all the time and I like pleasing the other person before myself always. So I'm getting it's platonic, I'm completely ok if our training is platonic, and kept into our scenes/sessions, but in the long term it's too early for me to guess what she has in store for me.
I've had experience for it before, but never met the right person who be into it. This woman knows what she wants how it's going to go, and I'm not questioning it, I trust her fully she's good in her skill.
I'm very sex experienced, but always wanted to be introduced, so she's a perfect match for me. Also she's a couple years older than me, so it can create a unique dynamic for me. I'm excited being a sub, because I've wanted to be a bottom for awhile.
Being the one who is forced down has always been a turn on for me, by a girl. So I don't know what to think. I'm excited a sub is going to be a great experience or slave..
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Explore the situation carefully with her.
Having said that, almost everyone who is into
that scene will recognize some version of:
Green [light]=yes,
yes!
Yellow/Amber=I don't feel right/I'm not sure about this....
Red=Stop! Don't ask why, just
stop, d*mm*t!
If she's at all ethical in her conduct re: BDSM, she
will both recognize the idea and act accordingly.