I "shared" every single thing I could remember with my late wife because we started off with 100% honesty but, shortly after she crossed over, I learned of many unspoken details of her life which she NEVER shared with me! It's OK, since I realize that her past may have been just too painful to talk about and share with me and others while my past was easier for me to talk about even if it did and still does hurt. I suppose it comes down to what is safe and less painful to share with others or at what time to do it. Maybe, if my late wife had lived a few more years, she might have opened up and shared more of her self with me. Oh well............