Just wanting to check -- are you including me in this? Are you saying that you don't know why I have been posting in this forum? I do not think I have a romanticized notion of what it means to be you. If I have conveyed that I am sorry because I don't believe it's the truth.

If you don't know why I post here and care about others who post here, I'll be glad to try to explain again -- it's mostly because I feel a need to accept and appreciate my own formerly dissociated parts. Maybe you think that's easier to deal with than your situation, but tough is tough. Mine has certainly been tougher than I thought I could take sometimes.

But, let me know if you would like me to shut up and I will. Yeah, I know it's not all about me. But if something is, then I want to know so I can learn how to know.