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Originally Posted by Skeezyks
Hello Submax: I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral!  Anyway... I'd be really suspicious about that therapist & her supervisor... no... I'd be more than suspicious... I'd run the other direction!   They may simply be viewing you as a lab rat, so to speak. It might be fun & interesting for them... but not at all beneficial to you. 
I think the real question here though is what, if any, impact is your fetish going to have on your marriage; & how will you & your wife handle it? Is your wife going to be accepting of your fetish, or is this something that could drive a wedge between the two of you? Are you prepared to accept the consequences if it does?
You wrote you have zero desire to stop being beaten. And as growlycat wrote fetishes do not go away; at least I believe that is the general consensus of opinion on the subject. So, while seeking therapy in an effort to "cure" yourself of your fetish probably doesn't make sense, there may be some need for both you & your wife to seek some counseling / therapy services in an effort to determine if-&-how your fetish can be accommodated while still preserving your marriage. I wish you both well...  |
Hello Skeezyks. My wife is horrified and disgusted. I explained to her that I was beaten as a child by my parents and a teacher (nun) in the third grade. The nun spanked me,slapped me,humiliated me for the whole year. It had a huge effect on me sexually. In high school I had a girlfriend that I had slap me while we had sex. At 18 I was in an adult book store one night and the place had a Dominatrix who took sessions in a back room. I was approached by her and she asked if I wanted a session. I was scared but followed her direction. I loved it. As I made more money I upgraded Dominatrix's and have been with the same one for some time now. I am trying to be a good husband and haven't seen the Dominatrix for about 6 weeks now. I miss her sadistic and caring ways. So to sum it up my wife is upset,I have this counselor hounding me and I have my Dominatrix texting me asking when I am coming back. Uggh.