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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch
Hi Scorpio and welcome to PC.
Yes, this is a very complicated relationship.
I am surprised that if your brother has picked up on the vibes that you give off towards his gf that he hasn't asked you to move out 
I think his gf is being really kind in the way she has dismissed your questions about whether she has deep feelings for you too.
She's right - it's not good for her relationship with your brother; and it's not good for your relationship with your brother either.
What good will come of all of this?
If you do have strong loyalty towards your brother, you would possibly find a way to move out.
She does not seem to have given you any signal what so ever that she is about to leave your brother to be with you. |
My older brother knows i wouldn't try anything other than hold hands or huggles
already told him that i see her as my sister and im really doing my best to achieve that
even if i had a big passion months ago im somehow getting there to see her as a sister
The fact she cried a bit for me when i was depressed once made me feel that i have a big friend for me at least.
Its been 7 months since we ever met, will let ya know how it keeps developing, still have 5 months to decide if i stay or go back to my country in Europe.
Currently working in Africa where everything can be rather more dificult to deal with.