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Old Oct 20, 2016, 05:47 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
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We used to have a store, and we had many bizarre customers who wouldn't just shop, they would come and visit.

I guess I like them because they're fun and interesting, but there tends to be drawbacks with them.

And i can't stand boring!

Do you think it''s a PD trait?
I don't know if it is a PD trait. I think it's a 'growing up in a dysfunctional family' trait, at least for me. My family wasn't normal, so I couldn't be friends with normal kids at a young age. It's really hard to cultivate healthy relationships when most of your relationships have been unhealthy. I also am not sure what's acceptable behavior and what isn't, although I have a much better idea now than I did a few years ago.

I've been a regular at places where I go more for the visiting than the shopping, lol. I'm still friends with one shop owner even though her store closed.