About five years ago a very close friend suddenly stopped seeing me. She dropped me in a very hurtful way, consistently reaching out to make plans, and then not following through with them. I stopped allowing myself to be baited and we did not speak or see each other for years...

Until last night. Wow, that was weird. I had been feeling bad all these years about the way I got dumped, but last night I realized that I don't want to be friends with this person anymore. It was a strange experience.