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Old Oct 20, 2016, 09:42 AM
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Originally Posted by Submax View Post
Monalisa: I won't be going back. My wife is horrified of who her husband is. I explained how I was treated as a child and how it started. Now she feels bad for me. I didn't want that,I just wanted her to understand. I wish I was more careful and she didn't find out.
I'm sorry to hear of your wife's reaction, both the horror and the pity. This is where marriage counseling can help. A therapist could help her understand both how the abuse affected you and how your fetish affects you and your marriage. And hopefully come up with a way for you to deal with it together.
Thanks for this!
growlycat