Doh,

It is sad, but true...sometimes these rough times allow us to get to know each other at a much deeper level & to respect each other in a different light that every could have previously existed.

You have opened your house to your sister....I am sure she appreciates that beyond all words. Setting your boundaries in your own house is important & she now has time to learn those boundaries & also respect you in a way she previously never had a chance to.

I hope the respect continues so there will be no need to continue complaining in the future. I hope she has learned a new respect for you that she didn't have previously. Hopefully something good has come from the horrible fire.

Just a thought,
Debbie