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Originally Posted by ScottJ33
Closure can never come from something so confusing, real feelings towards someone whom I don't know, wont ever know, despite me driving past that same building most days knowing she is there. I'm certain that I would have never cheated on my partner, I just needed to deal with these feelings with my therapist so I could move on, there is no after care, no follow up, but a sudden cut off which is wrong..
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Sorry you are going through this. Have you considered emailing her a summary of how you've been affected, or writing it up on Yelp?
I definitely relate to the thing above about closure. How do you reconcile in your head something like this when the other person is so elusive and evasive and was playing a role? After 2 years I still don't know who she was or even what what to call it. So warped.
No follow up for me either. Never once reached out to me, even though she knew she left me in horrible distress. Oh I care about you, then boom, caring switched off.