Yeah I used to..

Not so much now. So IMO there is hope

Ps grrr.. Indeed, too much too soon is never Wise (especially with therapists in my experience, but I was unfortunate in the therapist I was referred to )

But in Reality, he was the unfortunate, in betraying my trust, or the beginnings of trust

Also, papa bear is a person with immense integrity. I clearly had some skills of discernment when we fell in love and got married... Although I had been brutally abused by some previous "boyfriends" - physically, sexually and psychologically