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Originally Posted by Shy Introvert
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Well, first of all, I NEED to look professional for this job. Most places will not hire you if you go there looking like a hot mess with chipped nails.
Besides, what I invest in my look to get a job will not save our house. A job might though. So my priorities are spot on. As for my dad, call it what you want, I was only telling him that it's ridiculous how he has money to pay for my sisters Lexus, meals, clothes, rent, and he can't even help us. He did agree to help, but my husband is way to proud to let him help us.
You don't know how he is. I don't matter to him all, so what else can I do? If it were only that easy to just ask him for help, that'd be great. Not to be mean or anything, but you seem to be kind of judgemental and critical. Try seeing things from my POV before judging me please.
It's not like I can go to a job interview in jeans and messy hair you know. I'm going to another one tomorrow.
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Firstly, I was not judging you, I'm calling it like I see it. But you may call it what you like, doesn't bother me in the least.
Secondly, As for your priorities?
I assure you that everyone does not go to a salon to look good for job interviews, most of us are way too broke anyway, which is why we need the job in the first place. Salon visits happen after actually receiving a paycheck.
But that doesn't mean any of us showed up looking like a hot mess.
So I'm really confused by your logic.
You say the money you spend on the salon wont make a dent in the payment you need for the roof, fine, that's all good and well. But you can't tell me you're completely unable to do your own hair and nails, its like the basics of being female. I flat out refuse to believe you go to a salon everytime you need to leave the house.
My point is this, yes you need a job, but if you're so stressed about money, learn to try and live within your means. From what you've described about your house and finances, beauty salons are not included.
Ps. If my point is once again missed under a cloud of perceived judgment, no need to respond because I will disengage. I don't have the energy to keep repeating myself.