I think that my therapist and I moved beyond transference a long time ago. I suppose one could define our relationship with those terms but we are approaching 11 years together and honestly the relationship is very, very different now. Today he didn't have anyone after me and we just sat and chatted for a good 15 minutes. What our relationship exactly is varies on what I need. We're about to head into the season where he is very firm with me about managing holidays. Other days we can talk and work on social skills and he doesn't guide me any way. I do not consider him a father figure though. I guess it's complicated?...

Do you have help with housework?