((((( sunny )))))

I'm sorry you're feeling so bad. You have been through a lot, especially recently! Your health issue, your husband moving out--such a huge step even when it's anticipated, supporting yourself emotionally as well as your kids, and now T being gone... must seem like just too much.

That sounds so hurtful and mean, his asking that the ring be listed as an asset. To me, though I know you don't want to get into a 'tit for tat' divorce war, his doing this changes the 'rules' so to speak. Can you say No to this? Or say Yes but then we'll need to also add other comparable items if this is the direction this is going to take.

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I would feel better if T were in town. Even if I didn't call him, at least I would know he is only 10 miles away. That's kind of dumb, I guess. I feel alone.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Oh, sunny not dumb in the least. I can imagine you feel alone with T being gone right now. I also can imagine that he's thinking of you, too.

T is coming back safe and sound to you soon.

I hope you feel better soon and that you'll keep writing here.