Sounds like you made a real sensible decision, Delicious. You've had a belly-full of this guy. Stay with him, and you can look forward to a lifetime of this crap. Then there's the option of sticking with him for the best years of your life and finally leaving him when you're not so young. That's when most of the best men your age have already been taken. So the challenge now is to stick with your decision.

Controllers don't like to lose. He may come back around with a major charm campaign because he can't stand you deciding that your life belongs to you.

Don't worry about him. Eventually, he'll probably find some doormat of a woman who'll put up with him. (You did for awhile.) Not wanting to hurt people can be one of the surest paths to a miserable life. Some of the most important decisions that any human being has to make tend to involve not doing what someone else strongly wants you to do. Get over that hurdle, and you'll be on the right road to having a decent life.

People deserve what they're willing to put up with. At least I've discovered that that's pretty much how life works.