Re: why we got together again: A couple months ago I sent her a short FB message after a mutual friend mentioned seeing her. She responded by suggesting we get together, asking when I was free. After going back and forth a bit, I gave her my number and told her to call if she wanted to schedule something. She never did. That was the pattern when she dumped me - she would suggest we get together, get halfway through making plans, then flake out.

Last weekend she messaged me asking if we could get together this week and it actually happened.