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Originally Posted by ValentinaVVV
I admit that I am totally fine with gay, straight and bi relationships, however, if my BF wanted to have sex with a man I might feel threatened. I think that I could get over it if we had a strong relationship, but it would take time. I know this is foolish, and is because of my own insecurity.
And then there is stupid AIDS and VD. So we all have to use condoms anyways. Which really is a bummer sometimes.
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Threatened more so than if he wanted to have sex with another woman?
Honestly, as incredibly sexy as a threesome or foursome sounds to me, I know that I would be crushed by my own jealousy, anxiety and lack of self-confidence that I know would inevitably follow.
I've heard people say that you have to be very secure in your relationship for this to work but it seems like its actually the exact opposite. I feel like you almost have to NOT-care in order for it to work since I think the thoughts of jealousy and anxiety are human nature in this kind of situation.