Use your phone to log appts and kids activities and anything else you need to do.

For instance set 2-3 reminders . 2 days before the day, then the day before and then for morning of.

Pill box. Pick whatever day a week you like and again schedule Appts same as above and just do it.

You need to take into consideration the amount of meds your taking daily I'm sure that is causing your memory to be off.

Try to make some alone time, while kids are in school would be ideal as when they are home they need to be priority.

Good luck