so he sent me a letter - one month later. In it he says he can't work with me anymore and is sorry he can't do the closing plan we had created and that he is saying goodbye. He gives a poor synopsis of the last six years of therapy and then tells me I can't contact him anymore. however, my other support person who is a more senior psychologist is going to write and tell my ex T that proper closure with 5-10 sessions (when he is ready, maybe in about six months) is better than being taken to court or a formal complaint to his professional body. So I shall sit back and see what will come of that.