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Originally Posted by divine1966
That's a shame your sister is so awful and your parents are enabling her. That's awful. You have no control over it though and can't really change other people. It's healthier to improve your own life that you do have control over. I really hope you start therapy very soon and start working on improving your life etc that's another reason why you'd benefit from having a job, you might afford therapy etc if free one doesnt work out.
As about your sister. I don't believe anyone ever said that your sister can do no wrong. She isn't posting here and I don't think anyone ever mentioned her. I don't know if she needs to clean houses or not. If she posted she is broke and her roof falling out and she is losing her house yet still doesn't work, we'd advice same thing. It's common sense. If I said I was hungry but don't work people would tell me to get a job. if people can afford not working it's fine, but you don't. Can't advice much to your sister. Maybe she can join here
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Thanks, I know. She'll be lost when they die I'm sure. If I don't have to work on Fridays, but I WILL if I get hired at one place, then I'm going to that free therapy place for sure. The depression and anxiety classes are only on Fridays from 1-2p.m.
I can look into similar groups like women's groups I suppose. My sociopath sister would never ever post on here. Sociopaths think that there is nothing wrong with them and there is NO cure for them at all from what I read. Same with N people.
I hate having to try so hard just to get by and it sucks that I'm rarely ever happy! It also sucks that I'm the one who is usually doing most of the work in having to find and keep friends. I'm always tired, sore, sad, and just feel bad in general most of the time and it seems like no med can fix me. I wish that I could just be one of those happy go lucky people who everyone loves, but I'm the polar opposite of that.
I have bad genes. My grandpa committed suicide by drinking poison a long time ago before I was born. There is no hope for me at times it seems like. I know other people are worse off, but I won't lie about how I feel.