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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I have thoughts that I have it in my genes, too. Plenty of family history. As far as I know there's no scientific proof of this. I hate to think this. I hope you don't get anybody Triggered by this.
My FIL said I had bad DNA because people in my family were divorced! To him, that was enough to judge me, he wasn't even talking about the suicides. 
My two cents may help as a different way of looking at things. My mother made it clear that I was not to even think she would ever support any of us kids after school age. Thankfully, I never had to ask for money because I married a man that could support me, like she insisted I do. Actually we ended up giving her money. She'd say go work three jobs, both you and your h, and don't dare ask your parents. |
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Sorry about the possible trigger.
WARNING: Trigger
I was drinking last night. For any of you have ever looked hard for a job and felt like every menial job that you applied for was like applying for a job at the damn FBI with their 5 zillion questions, then you'll know why I'm so frustrated!
And to make things worse, I kid you not, this young woman at Ulta did not know how to do a refund! WTF? So I just did an exchange instead. Also, this other older lady didn't know how to open up a vodka bottle. She was nice, don't get me wrong, but for those people to be hired over me makes me feel like a real loser.
I do everything right it seems like and I have only heard back from two places so far. Ugh! I did apply to three other places and even called one back and I got no call back! I need to rest now as I'm mentally and physically drained and hung over, ugh! I'll apply for a few more jobs soon.
Sorry to hear about your FIL. What a jerk! Your mother sounds awful! It's very nice of you to take care of her after what she did. Also, you're lucky that you have a supportive husband-
Mine works too, but we don't make enough to cover our expenses sometimes. Especially now with all that's been thrown at us all at once!