I would run for the hills from this one. She is no kind of Jungian analyst I have ever known, and I have seen two for analysis and also studied Jungian depth psychology in undergrad. Nothing that you have described sounds Jungian--not her approach, or the nature of your sessions, her confrontational style, her interruptions, her usurping of your authority to decide things for yourself, her inability to help you sort through abuse....on and on and on.

You wrote that the AJA website says, "If you are willing to commit to analytic work for at least two years please contact the AJA office." Is that how you entered into this arrangement, by contacting them? Because I agree that contacting them about this is the way to go.