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Old Oct 29, 2007, 09:46 AM
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It's not at all dumb missing your T. Mine use to go out of the country, over to Asia regularly! When we terminated, I gave her a small, artist's, glass paperweight with the "world" in it, the landmasses made from grains of sand. I could remember giving it to her and think of her (now) looking at it and remembering me, no matter where she is :-) It helped/helps me remember she still "exists".

I would maybe pick your husband's biggest/favorite toy to put on the list and "trade" him ("I'll add the ring to the list if you'll add X?"). That could make you feel a little better and more balanced? I'm sorry he wrecked the ring's memory for you. I hope your cyst is going away, when do you get tested again? I had that when my antibiotics were screwed up and it's no fun worrying about health issues when you need to be concentrating on other things.
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