You would be amazed the flexibility that having others can give you... The ability to adapt to a chancing social group in an instant, sometimes without thinking. A large level of trust has to be built, and more importantly maintained...

A lot of it comes fluidly now, as we integrated a number of years ago after a huge amount of work from all involved. - There was the small issue of when I was a teenager, but didn't know how to handle MPD. That was a problem in itself, but i digress.