It is hard because the people we love sometimes do not feel the same way (yeah that is crap don't ever listen to when people say something like this). I have learned one thing in my life "The more you love a person that is unlovable the more lovable they become. And the more lovable they become the more love they show." Everybody you meet is a new person to love, there is no reason for those people not to show love towards you. There is no reason for being down on love because it is always there, like the air we breathe. Just like air it is something you cannot see, but you know it is there. ((((BPD))) sending some love! )