Thank you for you reply....

My husband and I have tried marital therapy, but never stuck with it long enough due to the conflicts we were having. We just stopped going because we were at each others throats all the time.

I understand what you mean when you ask about my son. My husband is not his father and unfortunately they had a very strained relationship in the past. My husband was always very hard on him and expected perfection most of the time. I ended up putting my son in counseling because his self-esteem was so low due to the badgering he was getting at home. So, no, it's probably not the best environment for my son and our family. My husband did get a lot better with my son once he got himself in therapy and on the right meds their relationship did improve over time. They have seen each other since our seperation because we have spent time together, but they do not speak on a regular basis. I have tried to talk to my eleven year old about the situation, but he is not real open with his opinion on the matter.

Thank you.