No, she has just been distant, though she constantly claims I am, because she is stressed about this job. She has only been at this job since July and she does not feel like she is doing well and is not meeting the goals that were set. She is not far off and they said she would need about a year to get the hang of it. She has not even received any negative feedback, but she also says she is hiding some actual numbers from them.
To come back to your question about the quality time weekend, my thought was to let her get all this work done that she had been saying she needed by just giving her the space to do it. Clearly miscommunication there because she was more interested in the quantity of time we spent together. We spent a lot of time together this weekend, just most of it was ****** because we were either mad at each other or thought the other was mad at them at the very least.
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