yes i know how u feel i am disabled 3 weeks after the accident i get divorce papers and leaves no income and can hardly take care of myself. what did u and her have problems with. what state do u liv in if its a no fault divorce state 50/50 all debt pension ira 401-k it sounds more like abadonment if u both didn't talk about her leaving and both approving it sucks i know its been over a year now for me