Sunny I'm sorry your soon to be ex decided to add insult to injury. I'll bet he knew this would do what it is doing to you.

Remember those close to us know our vulnerabilities and try to exploit them sometimes. If you feel that strongly about it you could say to him that you would like to pass that down to your daughter someday.

You probably will pass stuff like that on to her eventually, it just may take 40 years...

I understand wondering what is real anymore. I really like that your T emailed you. Sometimes we just don't need to suffer the way some T's think we do right?

Hugs