Hi, I am writing about myself and my fiance. We have been together two and a half years now and we just got engaged recently. From the onset of our relationship my fiance has struggled with erections during sex and delayed ejaculation. He has no problem with erections and ejaculation with oral sex. I have always had with him a very high sex drive and now I am getting to the point where I don't even want to try to have sex anymore. It feels very disappointing that he can be so excited and then soon after we start having intercourse he loses his erection. We have talked about this he has been to a doctor to make sure he was physically healthy and he is. Evidently it's all emotional which is actually worse because it's not something you can just fix. I don't really understand what's going on it is starting to create a lot of stress. I have noticed that are spark outside of the bedroom is starting to suffer as well. I know that I am pulling back because this ongoing problem is starting to get to me. What I'm trying to seek out help for is a man's perspective as to what could possibly be going on? We are to be married spring and I'm worried that this might be lifetime problem. He tells me that he had no sexual issue in his prior marriage. What to do?