Hello everyone.
Recently I've been wrestling with a recent issue regarding my friend.
After not speaking for a couple years (I moved to a different state and we lost contact) we finally reconnected and we decided that he would come visit me for a couple days so we can hang out.
I was very excited about his upcoming visit until recently.
Every so often he would get kind of rude or would just blow me off. I didn't mind the blowing off as much since I have a habit of distancing myself from people as well.
However his behavior has been a bit off recently and the rudeness and distancing himself has become more frequent. Then I found out that last week, he got into a car accident. He wrecked his car but luckily got away unharmed minus some broken bones in his wrist and a concussion. His behavior got slightly worse and but then he was drinking a lot and just acting a fool. Then about 2 days ago he was arrested for driving without a license and having no insurance. This is very unlike him.
My dilemma currently is that I'm thinking about calling off his visit when he gets out of jail.
I feel like he's been very reckless recently and, since I don't drive personally, I would be riding with him during his visit. Given his recent actions, I'm not okay with getting in a car with him.

Am I being too harsh about this?