Kramer is a good writer, and I have enjoyed his books. I found them informative, although I don't necessarily agree with everything. I liked "Should You Leave?" even better. It's essentially a novel written in the second-person. A hypothetical "you" asks Kramer whether or not you should leave your relationship. Throughout the book he defines "you" in different configurations and speculates on the best answer in each case. I learned a lot about relationships.