|
i see where you are comming from my son is adhd he is very distructive, his bedroom is a tip, on occasions that i have cleaned his room i have found under wear belonging to his sisters i have removed it and told him no more, last timne i said if i find any more i would tell other ppl in front of him by the way son is now 16,
i can also see where your hubby see that you are just bailing out your son make him pay the loan back so he learns to look after the car, if he keeps getting cars trashed and you replce them hes not learning talk to your hubby explain you dont want a divorce but you know there is a problem but you need his help to sort out both problems
thats my opinion hope this helps
__________________
 No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves.
|