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Old Oct 25, 2016, 05:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
((leomama)), when someone struggles with PTSD, it really does feel like nobody cared or cares or will have the capacity to understand how challenging PTSD really is. Let's be honest, PTSD is "lonely". You help others that struggle because you know that and you want to reach out to them so they don't feel so alone. It actually can be helpful to help others who struggle, and sometimes that can actually help "self" realize things about themselves that can be "self healing" at the same time.

Actually, one of my therapists told me that a lot of individuals get into the field of psychology and become psychologists that have problems themselves. Sometimes while they practice their own challenges come to the surface and it's not unusual for a psychologist to find themselves needing therapy at some point. However, some therapists find that by helping patients, they find answers to their deep "hurts or needs" and they grow as they help others.

You are never going to be "perfect" or have the capacity to solve all problems. The important thing is that you continue to grow as a person leomama. Honestly, the truth about life is we never stop growing and learning.
Hmm, I'm still not being understood by you which is good for me to know as I am preparing to write a blog post for an organization I volunteer for. I was taught that when a person does not understand me it is my job to make them understand me, so that is what I am trying to do here. This is kind of my test run for my blog post.

What I am trying to say is that a person in my life is trying to use my PTSD against me.

I know that there are people in my life who care, such as my pastor or even my daughter to the extent that she can.

Recently I had to tell my ex husband that he can not just come over without texting or calling because of my PTSD. I've told some of my ex in-laws about my PTSD which resulted in them revealing to me that some of their family members struggled with PTSD too.

I don't talk to my parents or my brother about it.

Its ironic you mentioned psychologist because my current therapist told me I (almost) know enough to be a doctor.

I'm still curious as to why you think I had a PD. Would you mind answering that question?